Have You Ever Had a Cyber-Stalker?

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If you have, you probably know they can be relentless in their pursuit of you. I have one now and without a doubt, I know who it is, only I can’t prove it. And what cyber-stalker would ever put their name out there?

I’m not one to complain or to have a victim mentality. And I won’t stress out over it because I have enough people who know me and who know that I’m all for doing the right thing and speaking against wrong. And they know that it’s a smear and I’ve shown proof to back that up.

I know that for me to be afraid is exactly what she wants and I won’t give her the satisfaction. However, I am concerned. Who wouldn’t be?

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This woman is a former school bully. She has send me nasty messages, and stalked all of my social media pages. And at different times in the last two years- Several times in 2018 then she’s returned again this year. She’s one of those stalkers that attacks you, disappears for a while, then comes back again with more hatred.

This is all because I deleted her from my friend’s list for making offhand comments and sarcastic remarks to some of my posts.

I’ve blocked her, however, she has had her sister, her son and a few others stalk me and my kids as well. We have since blocked all of them.

It just goes to show that she’s a coward and doesn’t have much going for her. Because if she did, she wouldn’t resort to any of this.

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Her latest act is stalking me on a few other pages such as Amazon and Google books.

The craziest things she’s ever done was in 2018, when she threatened to look up my address, then get on a bus and come pay me a visit (She lives out of state now).

I’m glad she thought I was worth the travel expenses! (Hee-hee!)

Understand that with someone as sick-minded as she is all threats should be taken seriously, And I’ve put a few friends on alert just in case she tries anything with them.

So, know this:

1. When you have a cyber-stalker, do respond. But never react!

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2. Never stay silent about it but put the word out to family and friends who love you because it can make all the difference in whether or not your attacker is caught should they take it to the next level and try to hunt you down.

3. At the same time, keep an eye on all your business online and be aware of your surroundings when you’re out.

4. Do your best to walk confidently and look like someone a criminal would think twice about messing with.

Do these things and you will surely feel better, be better able to relax and make life so much easier!

2 thoughts on “Have You Ever Had a Cyber-Stalker?

  1. Absolutely. The woman in Ohio against which we got a restraining order. She stopped bothering us after that, but continues to run amok elsewhere on the internet.

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