Why Bullies Hate People Who Prefer to Be Themselves

Bully boy teasing into camera, expressing aggression, POV victim of bullying

Bully boy teasing into the camera, expressing aggression, POV victim of bullying

Bullies are fake. They have to be to instill fear in those around them. And they resent anyone content with themselves and comfortable in their own skin.

Here’s Why:

1. Most bullies are highly insecure– more insecure than others; people who are themselves are usually more charming, seductive, and graceful. An authentic person will captivate others without trying. Because of his openness and fluidity, he draws people to him like a magnet. And bullies are jealous of anyone who enjoys good relations with others.

Understand that not only are bullies insecure, but they’re also vain. Authentic people outshine them without even trying and just their presence alone makes the bullies appear less alluring and charismatic to others.

Avoid these vanity bullies like the plague because they will find a way to destroy you if you stay around them. These people will only force you to suppress your natural charm and goodness, so you won’t look like you’re better than them.

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2. People who are themselves don’t have to make any effort because they are their natural selves. On the other hand, being fake requires a lot of work. There are also a lot of worries that go with it- worries that you might slip up and get your lies twisted, that you may accidentally expose yourself through your actions, and that your true personality will somehow seep through.

Bullies resent the fact that authentic people don’t have to work and worry as they do.

But no matter what these bullies may throw at you, never be afraid to be yourself. Never hide anything about you. Because if you do, you’ll only lose a bit of yourself each time you put on an act until you lose yourself entirely.

To be fake, you have to work too hard. I’m too lazy for that. And so is anyone who prefers to be themselves.

4 thoughts on “Why Bullies Hate People Who Prefer to Be Themselves

  1. I am sorry to comment so much but these bring up so many thoughts. Bullies are fake because they don’t want to lose their hiearchy. And because they want people to follow them they can’t fathom someone trying to think outside the box. Someone who is an individual that dances to their own beat. I sent you a follow up email from earlier. Thank you!

    • You’re very welcome. I’ll check it out. And I don’t mind the comments and questions. When I first started researching and reading about bullying, I had so many questions myself. 🙂

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