Why Bullies Need a Hated Enemy to Be Against

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In Robert Greene’s book entitled, “The Laws of Human Nature,” I once read that everyone needs a hated enemy and that there’s a positive side to having one. I’ve found that with packs of bullies, this is true.

Bullies in groups need an enemy, whether real or imagined, that they can band together and fight against- an “us-versus-them” object. Why? Because the presence of an enemy has always served to strengthen group cohesion and unite and tighten members. Groups reflexively focus on their hated target as a means of bringing it together as one and for further solidarity.

And if they can get any member of the authority and with a little power (teacher, principal, supervisor, manager or HR) to join in the hatred, all the better to ensure that the group align themselves to one another and oust the “enemy.”

Not even love, respect, or friendship unite people as much as the shared hatred of something or someone. Remember that there’s strength in numbers, and bullies must always have an entourage around them. You will never see a bully alone because the thought of being on their own scares them to death. And the stronger the solidarity, the less likely it is of the group disbanding. Hatred is the glue that binds the members together.

The victim provides the bullies the assurance that their group always stays together as one. Without the victim, the group is weak; things get boring real fast, and it won’t be long before they split up and go their separate ways.

Bullies also need victims for entertainment and as victory trophies to collect and display. They need victims as guinea pigs to test their (perceived) strength and power and then show proof thereof to bystanders and witnesses.

Therefore, the target serves many purposes. And once they’ve served their purpose, they’re neatly and quietly disposed of, and a new victim is selected.

Always remember this. The more we know about bullies’ inner workings, the better we can defend ourselves against them.

2 thoughts on “Why Bullies Need a Hated Enemy to Be Against

  1. Cooperation More
    Often Comes From

    Oxytocin Bonding
    Positive Empathy

    Compassion

    Or Negative
    Empathy

    Tribal

    Ganging

    Us Bullies
    Versus Them Bullies

    Politics Of Soul Now

    And Then There Are
    Rarer Birds Vultures
    Who Feel No One’s
    Pain At All They

    Only

    ‘Eat

    The

    Dead’ to
    Thrill Off
    Power of
    Inflicting

    Pain…

    Still

    ‘Evolving’

    ‘Normally’
    We Don’t Hurt
    Each Other If
    We Are Gonna Survive

    We MUST Cooperate

    Yet If Technology

    Replaces

    That Humanity

    What’s Left Is Colder to Touch 🥶

    Modern CuLTuRE SoUL DiSEaSE

    Yes HNDD Human Nature Deficit Disorder And NDD for All The Rest

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