What is the Moral to the Movie “Good Will Hunting?”

When I watched the movie “Good Will Hunting” for the first time twenty years ago, the character Will Hunting reminded me a lot of myself during high school- bullied, angry, lashing out at people, and would fight at the drop of a hat if someone stepped on my toes. I wasn’t a genius like he was. But still, there’s a moral to the movie.

Will, although uber-smart and talented, had been conditioned to think he was worth less than what he was, hence his working a job as a college janitor at the beginning of the movie. With his smarts, Will could have any job he wanted. He just didn’t know it.

Because this poor kid had a terrible start in life, he had long ago lost sight of his worth as a person. Just as I, and the character Will Hunting, leaned the hard way, you must know your worth to be happy and have a good life. Know that you have value and that you matter because if you’re blind to that, you’ll never be successful at anything.

For example, if you do not know your worth, you’re likely never to reach your true potential. You’ll end up settling for less than you deserve. You’ll sell yourself out in every area of life.

You’ll settle for crummy dead-end jobs that pay a pittance, dates, and partners you aren’t interested in, and friends who treat you shoddily. But one thing Will did have is great friends who had his back. Those guys would’ve laid down their lives for him.  So, I can say that Will chose his buddies wisely. But in every other area of life, he sold himself short. And his best friend finally told him the same thing, in so many words, toward the end of the movie.

As the old saying goes, “If you settle for less, you get even less than what you settled for.”

And that’s the gospel truth because I did that when I was young and got even worse than what I thought I’d accepted. It was all because others had programmed me to believe that the mere crumbs I’d received were the best I could do. And let me tell you, it royally sucked!

That’s what bullying does if you let it.

Fortunately, I eventually scratched and clawed my way out of that mindset, and now live a better and happier life. It wasn’t easy, but it got better once I began drumming into my own head that there was more out there for me and that I deserved a good life as much as anyone else.

Will Hunting also got the message at the end of the movie. He eventually saw his worth and found the courage to go after the life he wanted.

Isn’t it time you started getting more of what you want and deserve out of life?

Make the decision today to begin aiming higher! Apply for that 90K per year job you may or may not qualify for. Go ask out the girl who you initially thought was out of your league. Command respect and love from others and return the same to them. Aim higher than you ever have and watch your life begin to change for the better and become more rewarding!

8 thoughts on “What is the Moral to the Movie “Good Will Hunting?”

  1. It’s been years since I watched that movie, and I never caught onto it the way you did. Yes, it’s an important message – not just in terms of bullying but also in terms of how we raise our kids. I was raised believing I wasn’t pretty enough, was too fat, etc. and had zero confidence in myself. As an adult in my 50’s I still feel that way – there are only rare moments when I am satisfied with myself.

    • My heart hurts for you, Patti. Having an overly critical family can totally wreck our self-asteem. And it sets us up for a lifetime of depression and sometimes, failure because we’ve been conditioned not to believe in ourselves. Words have power- more power than a fist. Know that you are good enough and that you have value, sweetie. Understand that you are beautiful at any weight. I was overweight at 7 and 8 years old. I eventually lost the weight and ended up a very thin teenager, but as soon as I had children, the weight returned again, so I feel your pain. People can be horrible! But you are beautiful and you have value. Always know your worth.

      Sending you lots of love!

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