Although it is healthy and can set you free, forgiveness doesn’t mean you think what they did to you was okay. Far from it. What it means is that you refuse to let those who transgressed against you set up camp in your mind and to hold onto any grudges that may block you from your rightful blessings and hinder you for growth and success.
Sadly, too may people think that forgiveness means that you must become buddy-buddy with the person and have something to do with them. They then wonder why they keep getting hurt.
Understand that forgiveness doesn’t obligate you to interact with the person who did you wrong. It doesn’t mean you continue to be someone’s fool. You can forgive someone and still realize that they’re no good. Toxic people are dead weight and though you may forgive them, you realize that it’s still best to keep them at arm’s length.
You’re strong enough to forgive them but wise enough to avoid them.
You realize that these people will only take your forgiveness for weakness. They will use your forgiveness as a green light to keep pushing your boundaries.
Forgiveness is great because it gives you peace of mind. However, if you continue to allow these people to have a place in your life, they will only continue to take advantage of you. You don’t have to be mean to or mistreat them but there’s no law that says you have to trust them again. It’s better that you don’t trust them.
Some people you must forgive from afar.
With knowledge comes empowerment!