Bullying or Mobbing?

Bullying becomes Chronic when the bullying has gone on over time and has escalated such that it has now reached a dangerous level. In short, bullying has reached epic proportions.

When there’s Chronic Bullying, bullies have grown so comfortable with bullying the target that they skyrocket the torment and pursue their targets obsessively and non-stop. Where there’s Chronic Bullying, there’s no accountability. And where there’s no accountability, there’s simply no incentive to stop.

In the case of Chronic Bullying, the bullies’ behavior has gone ignored and unaddressed by an authority. The bullies have become so brazen, cocky, and encouraged that their actions have grown in strength, frequency, and cruelty over several years.

The bullies’ apathy toward the victim grows to a point where they lose all empathy and come to feel nothing but blind hatred and fury toward the target. The attitude has now become that anything they do to the victim, no matter how cruel or dangerous, is good because, to the bullies, the victim has no value, and his life is worth nothing.

People who bully to these extremes usually have followers and minions backing them up. And they enlist members of their following to do their dirty work. The bullying becomes so significant, so ingrained, and so severe that it seemingly takes on a life of its own.

The bullies are seemingly drunk on their own power and their hatred that the bullying and torment of you seem to be all the bullies can focus on.

Instead of the bullies controlling their evil emotions and actions, their feelings and actions begin to control them! The bullies are controlled by hatred and blinded by senseless rage. They have become so addicted to the power and control over another human being that the bullying becomes constant for the bullies to get their fix and maintain the high that the power over the target gives them.

Understand that when bullying becomes chronic, bullies don’t see the target as a human being; they see him as so worthless and inferior that, in their minds, the target doesn’t deserve the time of day, much less any respect. As far as the bullies are concerned, the target doesn’t even deserve to breathe the same air as them! Even worse- the target doesn’t deserve to breathe, period!

This is why chronic bullying can be especially dangerous to the target because the victim runs the chance of either breaking and committing suicide or being murdered by their bullies.

This is why it’s so important to get out anytime bullying becomes chronic. Get out of that environment- transfer to another school, go to work for another company, or move to another area.

Again, because once bullying becomes chronic, it becomes so out of control that it takes on a life all it’s own. There’s no stopping it at this stage.

The only way you’ll ever find peace is to leave without telling anyone. Only then will you be safe and have peace of mind.

With knowledge comes empowerment!

28 thoughts on “Bullying or Mobbing?

  1. Bully must get the punishment by the God. Bully will run mad. Bully will be paralyzed.
    I have seen one bully, related to my bully, is now paralyzed, suffering from perkinson and her spine has been broken. She was trainer of my bully.
    I can see that this bully will face same.
    ☺️🙏

    • Karma! karma! I hope all the bullies get their punishment! But most of all I hope bullies get stop before they harm!

      • You are absolutely right. Indeed karma. But true is this that my Bully is not stopping. When I was young and in service, I was busy with my job and my job was very stressful due to it’s nature. I was responsible for safe Air Traffic movement by providing safe Navigational and surveillance facilities. As such I had to study enough to get updated with new technology.
        My Bully used to abuse and tease me for reading technical materials. For nothing. However, with great difficulties, I managed.
        Now I am retired person and staying at home so accessible to Bully for more time.
        Just guess now!
        Thank you so much for your comments.
        your comments are support for me.
        Regards.
        Arun

  2. 💕Call it Like it Is!! It’s just Evil- Saul was a vicious bully and an egomaniac!! Scripture tells us he tormented by an evil spirit. -But the Spirit of the Lord departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the Lord tormented and troubled him (1Samuel 16:14) Thanks Cherie!!🙌🏾

    • Thank you so much! As a matter of fact, I’m working on a book now and it will be an ebook entitled, “How to be Ten Feet Tall and Bully-Proof.” 😊🤗😊🤗

          • I work for a company that looked the other way and let “gang of black bullies” got rid of good employees.

            These bullies are lazy, loud, greedy and has the false sense of entitlement.

            I pray that God’ s divine justice will be on them. The Universe will pay them back. Karma will get them sooner than later.

            They can victimize each other within their circle. They are lazy anyway. Don’t make it convenient for them to get to you.

            May God’s warrior angels keep us safe every seconds of the day, till eternity.

            AMEN

          • I’m so sorry you had to deal with such childishness, Rosaliza! 💔 I’m like you in that I believe God will get justice from them sooner or later! It sounds like younwere able to rise above those bullies and I’m proud of you for it. Wishing you a wonderful Tuesday! 💖💐🌞

  3. The most difficult thing to wrap my mind around and overcome, is that the bully often believes that the target deserves harsh and abusive treatment. No remorse. They feel justified.

  4. How crazy, insensitive, and diabolical. If you can’t get a way out, you gotta find a way to get them to back off. While I do not advocate violence if they continue to poke you endlessly, file a restraining order on ’em. You would think they could find more positive ways to waste their time. SMH 😡😱😩 But, this is all about survival of the fittest. Yet they will one day get beaten badly at their own game! 😯

  5. Sometimes other people support the bullies because they are avoiding to be targeted not that they like being on the side of the bullies so I think people who supports bullies should suffer same consequences as bullies as a way to discourage such behavior…

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