Townies, Cronies, and Hayseeds II C4.7

“Oh, no she didn’t!” Rita yelled to the top of her lungs at she sat at her computer in hers and Bobby’s bedroom, “Bobby! You gotta come take a look at this!”

Sheriff Bobby came rushing into the bedroom.

“What are you so fired up about!” he asked, annoyed.

“Look at this!” Rita said, standing up and pointing to the computer screen.

Bobby’s eyes grew wide, and his mouth dropped as he watched the incriminating video. His face then, ever so slowly, turned red. His brows furrowed, his eyes turn to tiny slits, his jaws clinched, and his lips grew thin as he gritted his teeth.

Rita stood behind Bobby with her arms folded and her eyes narrowed. If looks could kill, anyone within ten feet of her would have been dead on the floor on eye contact.

They both watched the video until the end. Once the video ended, a video of Brielle appeared. Brielle told her story.

Viral Video Evidence

“I want to thank everyone for watching and sharing this video. These are the same people who relentlessly and viciously bullied me all during high school. They made my life hell back then. And sadly, they’re the same ignorant, lowlife rednecks they were twenty years ago. These are supposed to be adults, but, as you just saw, they act like a bunch of immature children. One of them happens to be the Sheriff of Glover County, Tennessee. And Ashton Childers, the man who tried to grab me as I was trying to get into my car and remove myself from the situation, is one of his deputies. It seems that the bullies who made my life hell in school have moved into positions of power in Thomasville and Glover County, Tennessee. But no matter what, I’ll never again allow them to abuse me like they did back then. My friend and I will fight this nonsense in court on October the thirtieth at nine o’clock in the morning. Please give us your support! What we’re dealing with is a gross miscarriage of justice and it isn’t fair. Self-defense is not a crime! We all have a right to defend ourselves when we’re threatened. Always remember that. Thank you so much. And goodnight.”

Rita unfolded her arms and slowly moved her hands down to her sides, clinching her fists. Her breathing quickened and her nostrils flared as she huffed huge puffs of air through her nose. She looked like a bull in a bullfight getting ready to charge a matador.

Retribution

“That bitch was wearing a fucking body cam! That fucking bitch!” Bobby yelled as he jumped up from the desk chair with such force that the chair few back and toppled over.

“And look!” Rita chimed in, “This video already has over eleven thousand shares and over a hundred thousand reactions! We’re fucking screwed, Bobby!”

“Oh no, we’re not!” Bobby growled, “She is! She’s fucking screwed! That goddam Brielle Bennett Markowitz is going to pay dearly for this! I promise you that! I’m fixing to make a few phone calls.”

The following Monday, morning, Brielle dropped her SUV off at Scheffler Glass and paid to have them replace the broken back window of her car. Later that afternoon, Brielle drove Grandma Bennett’s Ford XLT pickup to work. She reported to work at Dusty Trail Boots Mfg, better known as “The Boot Factory.”

On the other side of town, two black SUVs, both with California license plates, slowly drove into the Thomasville City Limits. They lurched around the square and parked in front of the courthouse. Out of each SUV, stepped two big burly men, three white, one black, all dressed in black suits. One of the white men had a ring in his nose and the black man had an earring in his left ear.

Strangers in Town

The four men approached a lady on the street and handed her a photograph.

“Excuse me, ma’am. We’re wondering if you’ve seen the woman in this photograph.” The man with the nose ring said politely.

The woman looked at the photograph carefully.

“Well, she doesn’t look familiar. What’s her name?”

“Brielle Markowitz. Brielle Bennett Markowitz.” Nose Ring answered.

Meanwhile, Sheriff Bobby arrived at the sheriff’s office after taking the morning off and having a late lunch.

“Well, Sheriff. I’m surprised to see you here at after three in the afternoon,” A young deputy told him.

“I had some personal business to take care of. Aren’t you supposed to be on patrol, Rookie?” Bobby replied in a threatening tone.

“Yes sir. I was just getting ready to leave.” The young deputy said nervously.

“Then get to it!” Bobby said, raising his voice.

A Sense of Panic in the Sheriff’s Office

Sheriff Bobby looked at Ashton, who was sitting at his desk drinking a hot cup of coffee and reading reports. He made a head gesture for him to follow him into his office. Ashton rose from his desk and did what he was told. Once they were both inside Bobby’s office, Bobby closed the door. Ashton sat in one of the chairs in front of the Sheriff’s desk. Bobby sat down at his desk and looked at Ashton.

“You don’t look or sound like you’re in a very good mood, Bobby,” Ashton mentioned.

“You’re right! I’m not! Wanna guess why?” Bobby said coldly.

“I already know why, Bobby! I’m not in a great mood myself and it’s all for the same reasons,” Ashton said in a rough tone, “What do you want me to do?”

“I want everything you can find on Brielle Bennett Markowitz! And I mean everything– where she lives, address history, where she works, where her family live, marriages, whether she’s got children, any criminal records, traffic tickets, finances, job records, psychiatric records- I! Want! It! ALL!”

A Vengeful Plot in the Making

“You got it, Bobby!” Ashton agreed as he nodded. And he got up and walked toward the door.

“Oh, and Ashton,” Bobby called.

Ashton stopped and turned around.

“Bobby?”

“See what you can find on Raina Hubbard Carrier too- just for good measure. In fact, I want you to find out who Brielle’s friends are,” the sheriff added.

“I’ll get right on it.”

Getting Rid of the Urge to People-Please

Many people, especially targets of bullying, will have an overwhelming urge to people-please. Why? There are several reasons:

1. Fear of being harmed

2. Self-preservation

3. The desire for approval and to be liked.

Therefore, targets of bullying want to be likeable because they think it will protect them. Sadly, they think that the only way to likeability is to be agreeable.

However, you can never be agreeable one hundred percent of the time. It’s just not humanly possible. Also, being too agreeable can have the opposite results of what you’re aiming for. Being too agreeable can cause you to lose respect and for others to see you as a pushover! Yikes!

Moreover, there are times when it just isn’t smart to be “likeable.” Sometimes you must, in a sense, kick a little bit of booty.

So, how do you retrain your brain against the urge to people-please?

You start by asking yourself these questions:

1. Do you do it to get approval and be liked?

2. Is your people-pleasing a way to get others to validate you?

3. Do you people-please because you feel you need to prove your worth to people?

4. Do you do it because you want to be accepted or included?

5. Are you attracting users and abusers by this behavior?

6. Are you doing it out of fear?

There’s nothing wrong with being good to people and helping them out. However, you can do it for the wrong reasons. As a result, you can find yourself getting the opposite of what you want out of it.

For instance, you may attract those who only use and abuse you. Understand that bullies and other such unsavory people will sniff you out. And they’ll use you for their own ends.

Therefore, this is why people-pleasing is never good.

No. It won’t be easy to rewire your brain and break this bad habit. Learned behavior is not only difficult to change, but it takes time, sometimes years. However, it can be done.

With knowledge comes power!

The Universe Taps Out

The universe fights you
It wants to smite you
The harder you try
The more things go awry
But you’re stubborn
You won’t stop sudden
You refuse to give up
Determined to fill your cup
No matter what Uni throws
Your determination only grows
You keep working, working
While Uni keeps hurting hurting
Until you wear Uni out
One, two, three, Uni finally taps out
Then your success comes about

Townies, Cronies, and Hayseeds II C4.6

Brielle and Raina sat quietly in the holding cell when a jailer came down the hall and stopped at the door. He took a set of several keys, stuck one in the lock and turned it. The sound of a buzzer went off and he opened the door to their cell.

“Markowitz, Carrier, someone has posted bail for you fine ladies. You can go now,” he rudely informed.

Brielle and Raina got up and the jailer led them down the hall toward processing.

When Brielle and Raina collected their valuables, they were taken to the lobby where Grandma Bennett and Raina’s husband Paul Carrier were waiting.

Later that evening, when Brielle got her SUV out of the impound yard and Grandma Bennett met her at her house, they all, including Paul and Raina, gathered in Brielle’s living room. Jesse and Jerome joined them. Brielle spoke up.

“How on earth did Bobby, of all people, end up as sheriff of Glover County?” Brielle asked, bewildered, “How does anyone that dumb become sheriff- especially after his brother, Johnny, a former sheriff, goes to prison for abuse of power?”

“Well, after Sheriff Crawford was killed in a hunting accident last year, Bobby happened to be next in line. He was deputy sheriff when Sheriff Crawford died, so he just slid right into his spot. He took over as acting sheriff and he will continue as such until the next election,” Jesse answered, “Pretty convenient, don’tcha think?”

Backstory

“Yep! That hunting incident was no accident!” Grandma Bennett said in a voice of contempt, “Everybody knows it, they just can’t prove it! It’s common knowledge that Bobby Crabtree wanted to be sheriff so bad he could taste it. And it is awful convenient that Crawford died when he did.”

“There’s a lot of people who think that Bobby Crabtree had Sheriff Crawford murdered. He resented Crawford for a long time simply for taking over when his brother, Johnny got arrested and sent to the federal prison in Bryson. In fact, he never liked Crawford because Crawford went by the book and believed in the order of law. Crawford wasn’t crooked like Johnny Crabtree, and he didn’t play favorites. He gave special treatment to no one, not even his own family! No one could corrupt him, so they took him out!” Jerome added.

“The rest of his family moved away because they were being harassed and were afraid that they were on the endangered list too, because they knew too much,” Raina’s husband, Paul said.

Brielle turned to Raina.

“Raina, why didn’t you tell me that Bobby Crabtree was the sheriff?” she asked in a voice of concern.

“I didn’t think about it, Brielle. We were going to do some catching up when we got home from the reunion, and I was going to tell you everything, everything that had happened since you left. I just didn’t know that the reunion would go down like it did. I honestly thought that most of them had grown up because I hadn’t seen them in years myself,” Raina replied, “I’m so sorry, Brielle.”

The Story of Sheriff Crawford

“It’s not your fault, Raina,” Brielle sighed. She looked at Grandma Bennett.

“I’m so glad you got me out of jail, Grandma, and that there was a bail bonds open on a Saturday!”

“You’re very lucky, Brielle! Being as you must report for work Monday afternoon, you would’ve missed your first day of work and that job would have gone bye-bye!” Grandma Bennett told her, “So, I had to bail you out! Now, have they set a court date for you?”

“October the thirtieth.” Brielle responded.

“Oh, yes. The county court stays pretty backed up with all the cases.”

“Well, the good thing is that I’ll just be finishing my probationary period when that day rolls around. So, I’m glad of that!”

That night after Brielle got home and put all the children to bed, she sat down at her computer. She unbuttoned the top three buttons of her shirt. Then she removed one of the buttons to reveal a button-style body camera. The camera looked somewhat like a flash drive with a button on the front.

“It’s a good thing Grandma Bennett bailed me out before they had a chance to search me,” Brielle thought to herself as she hooked the body cam up to a USB cord.

She then took the other end of the cord and hooked it up to her computer and downloaded the recording that was on the body cam.

Once she downloaded the video, she saved it in a folder that she named, “Reunion Evidence.” Next, she watched the video.

The video showed the altercation at the reunion, every second of it. It had recorded both the audio and video of the altercation. As Brielle watched, a big smile spread across her face. She had gotten everything on video.

A Damning Video

She had gotten the conversation of the bullies putting her down for her having been an exotic dancer in California, the attempted assault by Ashton when he had grabbed her by the arm to keep her from getting into her SUV and leaving, the resulting self-defense move she’d made to protect herself from Ashton, the attempted escape and the sheriff’s shooting her back window out while trying to stop her and Raina from leaving.

Brielle had also managed to record hers and Raina’s arrest and the trip to the jail in the back of the squad car. She had gotten it all on camera, and she grinned from ear to ear as she uploaded the damning video on all her social media channels, being sure to caption the video with these words:

“Bullies don’t change, they only grow bigger. This is the behavior my friend and I had to deal with at our twentieth high school reunion. The Thomasville HS class of 2003 and other classes have shown that they haven’t matured one iota. It’s sad when adults behave so childishly. And this is proof that I had to defend myself from a possible attack, only to be arrested along with my friend because I stood up to the wrong people.”

Now she had leverage! By the next day, Brielle’s incriminating recording had gone viral.

Never Allow Yourself to Hate

Sadly, hate is too easy for bullying targets to get sucked into. When people have treated you so horrifically for long enough, you lose faith in humanity. A person who is the object of bullying begins believing that all people are self-serving lowlifes who enjoy seeing other human beings suffer. They soon become the very people they’re suspicious of. I’ve been there.

Targets of bullying often feel that there is justification for their hate. However, does this intense loathing serve any purpose or have benefits? No!

No matter how some creep may have wronged you, never give in to hate. Regardless of how severely that person may have transgressed against you, do not, under any circumstances, allow yourself to hate them because hate is poisonous! Not to the other person but to YOU!

Here’s why:

1. Hate burns you up inside. It eats down into your very soul and prolongs feelings of hurt, depression, and downright misery.

2. Hate doesn’t hurt the person being hated. It hurts you because nine times out of ten, the person you hate either doesn’t know about it, or they don’t care.

3. Anytime you hold hate in your heart against anyone, you unwittingly give up any blessings. Also, you forego any opportunities, which would otherwise come your way. You instead invite negativity and evil into your world. Hatred causes you to forego your own happiness, and life is too short to be anything but happy.

4. While you are sitting around stewing over some idiot who has wronged you in the past, the same idiot is going about their merry way and not giving you so much as a thought.

Hate Serves You No Purpose

That’s right. While you are holding grudges and plotting ways to get back at them, that person is just getting on with life. The person who hurt you is not worried about you. They are not thinking about you. So why do you think about them? They are a complete waste of brain activity!

Hate, insecurity, grudges, anger- they are all garbage in your life that needs to be disposed of. It’s time to take out the trash and take back the peace and happiness that you not only deserve but have a divine right to.

You deserve to be happy. And the only way you will find happiness is to let go of any grudges and hate and replace them with love and acceptance. It is what I had to do before I could be happy.

With knowledge comes empowerment!

Townies, Cronies, and Hayseeds II C4.5

When the deputies got the two women to the county jail. They fingerprinted them and took their mugshots. Sheriff Bobby arrived at the jail just behind them.

“How was your class reunion, Sheriff?” one of the jailers asked.

“I’m afraid it was cut short because of the two troublemakers who were just brought in. They decided they wanted to start a brawl! Go ahead and book them. I’ll deal with them myself when you get through processing the two bitches in,” Bobby replied.

Brielle and Raina each were allowed one phone call. Brielle called Grandma Bennett and Raina called her husband Paul.

An hour later, Grandma Bennett and Paul arrived at the jail. Grandma Bennett walked up to the sheriff’s secretary June, who sat at the desk beside the door to the sheriff’s office.

June looked up.

“Yes, ma’am. How may I help you?” She greeted in a suspicious tone.

“I’d like to see the sheriff,” Grandma Bennett answered.

“He’s rather busy now.”

“This can’t wait.”

“Have a seat and I’ll page him.”

June hit the call button and paged Sheriff Bobby.

“Sheriff. There’s a lady out here who needs to see you,” she informed him.

“I’ll be right out,” Bobby’s voice answered.

Grandma Bennett to the Rescue

Thirty seconds later, the door to the office opened and the sheriff came out of his office. His eyes widened when he saw Grandma Bennett sitting across from the secretary. Grandma Bennett rose from her seat.

“Well, Mrs. Bennett. Long time, no see,” he greeted the heavy-set, silver-haired, elderly lady.

“Not long enough,” Grandma Bennett responded in a cold tone.

“Then why are you here?” the sheriff asked, although knowing good and well why she was there.

“Let’s step into your office and I’ll tell you.”

“Sure. Right this way, ma’am,” the sheriff said as he made a hand gesture toward the door of his office.

Grandma Bennett entered the office. Sheriff Bobby entered behind her and shut the door behind him.

“Please, have a seat,” the sheriff said.

“I’d rather stand, thank you,” Grandma told him.

“I’m sure you’re here because Brielle and her friend Raina were brought here a while ago. Other than that, how may I help you?”

“You can start by laying off my granddaughter!”

“Now, ma’am. She was arrested because she assaulted two people at the reunion today.”

A Heated Discussion

“Yeah? And what did they do to her first to make her assault them. She called me and according to her, it was self-defense. Brielle has never been the type to start a fight, but she has damn well finished a few,” Grandma Bennett said, raising her voice, “And you and your buddies have taunted and tortured her all through school and damn if you aren’t trying to do it again! You just can’t leave her alone, can you?”

“Now what are you talking about?” the Sheriff asked in a tone of indignance.

“You know damn well what I’m talking about! That little fiasco at that reunion was just the excuse you needed to put her behind bars and separate her from her children and family- the very people who support her! And what really takes the cake is that, as they were driving away, you shot at her and her best friend like they were escaped convicts who were armed and dangerous! You fired your gun several times at them, as a matter of fact! Shame on you! What kind of sheriff shoots at two unarmed women?” Grandma Bennett fired off.

“Mrs. Bennett, allow me to repeat myself. She assaulted several classmates. And she used martial arts to do it. Now, by law, her bare hands are lethal weapons,” Sheriff Bobby repeated in a fake tone of concern.

“She assaulted them after they all tried to jump her, Bobby! You know damn well that was self-defense! What did you expect? That she’d just stand there and let them all beat the crap out of her?”

Without answering the older lady’s question, Sheriff Bobby asked one of his own.

“How long has Brielle been a blackbelt in martial arts, Mrs. Bennett?” he asked.

Grandma Bennett Says Her Piece

“A long time. What does that have to do with anything?” Grandma Bennett shot back.

The sheriff scoffed before answering.

Everything. Like I just said, her hands are lethal weapons. In fact, her whole body is a lethal weapon, and she should’ve registered it as such. In this state, Brielle isn’t registered because I already checked,” he went on.

“She hasn’t even been here long enough! For Peke’s sake, she hasn’t even gotten settled in yet!” Grandma Bennett shouted.

“Well, I’d suggest that she get to it,” Sheriff Bobby said in a warning tone.

“Let’s get something straight right here and now, Sheriff. You’d best back off of Brielle. Because, given what I know about you and several others in this town, it would be in your best interest if you left her alone, and that goes for the rest of your little imps!”

“Imps? Boy, that’s pretty bold there, Mrs. Bennett.”

“Oh, you haven’t seen bold yet, buster! I’m only getting started! Now, there’s a lot of people who went to prison over that ordeal with Shannon Crooke a few years ago. What do people call that now? ‘The Thomasville Conspiracy?’ Oh, yeah, a lot of people went to prison, including your brother, but many more dodged that bullet and I know who they are and what they did. So, if you expect me to keep my mouth shut, you’ll leave Brielle and her children alone and you’ll tell your buddies to do the same!

Grandma Bennett Puts Bobby in His Place

“That’s blackmail, Mrs. Bennett!”

“I dare you to indict me, Bobby!” Grandma Bennett said in a low, raspy voice, “Arrest an old woman who’s active in church and the caterer in this town? And has been for over forty years- an old woman who happens to have a lot of connections here? Ooh, that would sit real pretty with most of your constituents, now, wouldn’t it?”

Sheriff Bobby leaned back in his chair, folded his arms, and blow out a huge puff of air. Grandma Bennett continued.

“Now I’m going to post bail for her and you had best remember what I said,” She warned before storming out of the office.

After she was gone, Sheriff Bobby leaned back, in deep thought. He sat there, stroking his stubbled chin, with his head tilted and eyes averted to his right…

Hate Only Damages the Hater Not the Hated

As a survivor of severe bullying and peer-abuse, I’ve seen the faces of hate- up close and personal. And let me tell you, it’s ugly! And dangerous!

I know what it looks like. I’ve felt it’s powerful and painful sting and have been paralyzed by it. As much as I hate to admit it, I’ve even had it directed toward others in those days. But hatred is worthless. Most people don’t understand the damage it does to not the hated, but the hater!

The reality is that hate causes the hater more pain than it does the hated. I say this because I’ve witnessed it. In the past, I’ve looked into the eyes of my bullies- deep into their eyes- down into their souls! And I truly believe that if there wasn’t a law against murder or manslaughter, I probably wouldn’t be here today.

On the Receiving End of Hatred

That was the kind of hate many of my classmates had for me. I saw how it would burn them up inside. ‘You see? That’s what hate does. When you have hatred for another person, you’re only hurting yourself.

Because it will eat you up inside and make you crazy. Hate is a sick and twisted obsession and it can take over your life if you allow it to.

Hatred can destroy your happiness and prospects. It skews your judgement and ability to think clearly. It causes you to make horrible decisions- decisions that can alter the entire trajectory of your life.

Hate is Harmful on Both Sides

When a person has hatred for another human being, it numbs their conscience, dulls their reasoning capabilities. They will condone things they would otherwise deem immoral and evil. The hater will approve of the most depraved, heinous, and atrocious atrocities directed toward the hated person. Yet they would disapprove of it, even condemn it, if it’s against with anyone else, even a total stranger.

Hate turns even the kindest, most caring people into depraved monsters. Realize that hate destroys haters and targets alike. Hate kills.

Indifference is a better option than hate. Because with indifference, you could absolutely care less, You could care less if the person is doing good or bad, what he thinks, what he says, or what he does.

Indifference is Much Better than Hate

On the other hand, with hate, you care because all you want is for the hated person to suffer. There’s a strong desire to make sure nothing good happens for the hated.  And you obsessively seek to destroy them and their life. You want to make sure all opportunities are closed off to the hated person. This is what hate does. It causes haters to obsess over the hated.

So, if you’re a target of bullies, let them go ahead and hate on you. But don’t hate them back. Instead, be indifferent toward them, and how you do that is to stop caring what others think and do your thing, baby!

With knowledge comes empowerment!

Townies, Cronies, and Hayseeds II C4.4

Inside the vehicle, Raina stared at Brielle in amazement.

“What the hell?” she gasped.

Suddenly, the two women heard loud pops, like firecrackers. Then, something shattered the back glass of the Escalade.

“Shit!” Brielle cried, as she reached over and grabbed Raina by the back of the neck and pushed her head down toward her lap, “Get down and stay down!” The two women then heard another cluster of loud pops. Next, it sounded like the truck was being pelted with rocks.

“Damn! What’s wrong with those people!” Raina cried, as she rose up just enough to peer around the side of her seat and see Bobby running after them and getting smaller and smaller through the broken back windshield.

“Don’t get back up yet! Just stay down!”

Brielle continued to fight for control of the vehicle as she hunkered down in her seat to avoid being hit by flying bullets, but just enough to continue her ability to see the road in front of her.

When the two women turned onto the main road, Brielle floored the gas and the vehicle sped down the two-lane highway.

A Hail of Bullets

“God! I haven’t even been here a month…and this shit!” Brielle breathed.

“Well, I have a bad feeling it’s about to get worse,” Raina said.

“What? What are you saying?” Brielle asked suspiciously.

“Bobby’s now the sheriff, Brielle.”

What!”

“He’s the sheriff of Glover County!”

“Oh, that’s just great!”

“And Rita is his wife!”

“Awww, even better!” Brielle said in a sarcastic cheer.

Suddenly, the two women heard the distant sound of sirens from behind. Brielle looked in her rear-view mirror to see a cop car with it’s blue lights flashing, getting bigger and bigger in the window. Raina looked around the back of her seat.

“Speak of the devil!”

“Damn it!” Brielle shouted.

“What are you going to do?”

“Well, if I run, I look guilty of something. If I stop, I’m still guilty because I stood up to the wrong people,” Brielle said.

Raina shook her head and clicked her tongue before speaking.

“Tsk. Only in Thomasville,” she cracked.

The Crime of Self-Defense

Suddenly, another cruiser pulled in front of them and the blue lights came on. Brielle and Raina screamed as Brielle slammed on her breaks and squealed to an abrupt stop, just inches away from the county police vehicle. A deputy grabbed his rifle and jumped out of the vehicle. He aimed the weapon at the two women in the Escalade in front of him.

“Lemme see your hands! Now! Get ‘em up! UP!”

Brielle and Raina put their hands up. The pursuing officer pulled in behind the Escalade and got out, aiming his gun.

“Get out of the car! Now!” he screamed.

Brielle and Raina opened their doors with one hand and kept the other hand high in the air.

“Slowly!” the first deputy ordered.

The two women slowly got out of the truck. By this time, two more cruisers pulled out and the uniformed occupants got out. One deputy grabbed each woman and drag her to the hood of the truck.

“Put your hands on the hood of the vehicle.” Brielle and Raina did as they were told. The deputies patted the two women down, cuffed them, then placed them in the back of one of the vehicles.

“That was self-defense, and you know it!” Brielle growled.

“Maybe. But who’s gonna prove it? You?” one of the deputies said in a smug tone.

“You never know. I’d tread carefully if I were you,” Raina shot back before the deputy slammed the car door in her face…

Update!

UPDATE! I’m back online using the data on my phone from another carrier, however, it’s slow as a snail!🐌🐌🐌 And the signal dies at times because we live in a rural area and the nearest tower isn’t close enough to get a good signal! Therefore, I may not be on as often. But I’m back on and that’s what matters! So, if it takes me longer than usual to respond to you, please bare with me.

Blessings!

Attention Follow Bloggers and Readers- I’ll be offline Until the 20th

Hey, guys! I’m sad to inform you that my internet has gone out today. The only way I’m able to write  this message is because I’m using someone else’s devise that has a different service.

I have talked to my internet provider and the soonest appointment they had for me to have a tech to come to my home is August the 20th. 💔 Therefore, I won’t be able to respond to any comments or read any posts until then or after, depending on what they find and how long it takes for them to fix it.

Know that I apologize for the inconvenience. I’ll miss you all.

Sending lots of love. 💞

Cherie

UPDATE! I’m back online using the data on my phone from another carrier, however, it’s slow as a snail!🐌🐌🐌 And the signal dies at times because we live in a rural area and the nearest tower isn’t close enough to get a good signal! But I’m back on and that’s what matters! So, if it takes me longer than usual to respond to you, please bare with me.

Blessings!

Which Would You Rather Be?

Hated for Being Smart or Pitied for Being Dumb?

I ask this question because many intelligent people try to hide their smarts for fear of hatred and bullying. They let others convince them that, because of their smarts, they come off as know-it-alls. Others tell them to dumb down because they “don’t want to make others feel bad about themselves.” They may even tell them to tone it down a little or they just might offend some people.

This is total BS!

I want you to know one thing right now! It is not your responsibility to make someone else feel good about themselves. Whether your intelligence offends others is not your problem. Their hatred of you is also not your problem.

Continue to be Your Smart Self

Understand that the reason why your intelligence may offend some people is because they are either jealous, intimidated, or insecure. It’s because of their own unaddressed psychological issues- issues that they’re trying to lay off on you.

Your intelligence may inspire some to doubt their own smarts and mental capabilities. Also, it may provoke others to compare themselves to you. Again, not your responsibility. They are the ones doubting and questioning their own intelligence. They are the ones who are making comparisons. You aren’t doing these things to them. They are doing it to themselves!

You are Not Responsible for Someone Else’s Feelings

Again, you are not responsible for another person’s self-esteem. Only they can do the inner work needed to raise their confidence levels. Therefore, if they’re too lazy to do that inner work, that’s on them!

Here’s another point I want to make: The hate that’s directed at you never feels good and can be frightening. But always remember that there’s dignity in being hated, but none in being pitied.

Yes, you read that correctly. When people hate you, you still have your dignity. But when they pity you, you’ve lost all dignity and respect!

Others hate smart people, but they pity the stupid.

Therefore, never hide your intelligence from anyone. Let yourself stand out and shine. And never feel tempted to hide your brilliance because you’re afraid of being bullied, ridiculed, or hated by others. Instead, ask yourself,

“Would you rather be hated for being smart or pitied for being dumb?”

I rest my case.

Townies Cronies, and Hayseeds II C4.3

Misty and Rita leaned toward Brielle and Raina. Bobby Crabtree also sat beside Rita, who happened to now be his wife, and looked at Brielle, seemingly studying her, before speaking.

“So, what did you do back in California all these years? We saw you in a few movies and videos, but that’s it,” he said in a snide voice.

“I was a dancer,” Brielle answered honestly.

“What kind of dancer? Ballet? Hip-hip? Square dancing? What?” Austin, another member of the clique, asked in a smart alicky tone as he stood behind Rita and Misty holding his beer. Other members of the clique walked up and joined Austin, behind Bobby, Rita, and Misty.

“Exotic,” Brielle answered.

Austin, who happened to be sipping his can of beer, suddenly turned his head away from the crowd and spewed it on the ground. A sudden hush fell over the entire class as eyebrows raised and eyes grew big as saucers. Rita and Bobby turned and looked at each other, then Rita looked at Misty, who sat on the opposite side of her from Bobby. Her eyes then returned to Brielle.

Discovery

“’You wanna run that by us again?” Rita said in a shocked tone.

They all glared at Brielle before Ashton Childers asked in an insulting manner, “So, you were a stripper!”

“I prefer exotic dancer.” Brielle countered.

“Same thing.” Sarah said, raising her voice.

“It’s good money.” Brielle reminded them.

“Of course, it is! Men play thousands to see coochie dancing around on stage! Hell! You’re no better than a hooker!” Aaron spat.

“Yeah! You’re a little strip-tease!” Philip shouted.

Misty sneered at Brielle.

“So, you just move off to California and turn into a litte strip-whore! Because you know damn well that you wouldn’t get away with that shit here in Thomasville! You go where no one knows you and where you can get away with shit like that! You strip off your clothes and dance for the guys there! You couldn’t stand the thought of your old high school mates knowing what you became, so, your coward-ass folds up her tent and hightails it to the West Coast, where no one knows you and where that sort of thing is more acceptable! Am I right, Brielle!” Misty shouted in repugnance.

Picking Up Where They Left Off

“Right!” Rita agreed, “So, you, the filthy whore that you are, just decide to go to a place where you can be a slut and get away with it free and clear! ‘Sound about right, Brielle! You’re a piece of trash!”

Brielle could feel her cheeks sting and her hands begging to clinch into fists. This was getting too familiar! It was as if she were back in high school again, being bullied by the same pieces of garbage who had made her life hell before. And now they were trying to do it again, but Brielle managed to keep her composure. She looked Misty dead in the eyes.

“You don’t know what the hell you’re talking about.” She growled. Then she turned to Raina. “Come on, Raina. Let’s go. I refuse to be around people who haven’t grown up!”

“Ugh! Now you wanna to get on your moral high ground with us?” Sarah shouted.

“Bye!” Brielle said, putting her hand up to them.

“Oh, you wanna leave? What’s the matter, Brielle? Can’t take the heat? Can’t face us now?” Rita called out.

Brielle and Raina just kept on walking with their backs to them.

“She’s still a weak bitch just like she was in high school! Let her go if she wants to be a little chickenshit and leave!” Misty retorted.

Walking Away from The Drama

And Raina followed Brielle to her SUV.

“I can’t believe that bitch is back!” Aaron sneered.

“What are we going to do about her, Bobby?” Rita asked.

“Oh, I have a few ideas. Just be patient,” Bobby assured the rest of the class.

“Oh, hell no! She’s not leaving until we have our say with her!” Ashton said as he got up and followed Brielle and Raina to Brielle’s truck.

Brielle continued to the driver’s side of her vehicle and Raina to the passenger side. As Brielle opened the driver’s side door to get in, Ashton caught up with her and grabbed her by the wrist. “Where do you think you’re going, little lady?”

Suddenly, something in Brielle snapped. She used her martial arts training and punched Ashton in the nose, then did a front kick and sent him flying about ten feet until he hit the ground on his back. Brielle could hear gasps of utter shock as the rest of the class jumped up from where they were sitting.

“Oh, shit!” Raina shouted from the passenger seat of the truck.

The Crime of Self-Defense

Bobby just stood there, shocked at what he’d just seen. Wimpy, weak little Brielle Bennett, of all people! Kicking Ashton Childers’ butt? No freaking way! It couldn’t be! Brielle had left Thomasville weak and beaten down  and returned a badass in control of her destiny? It couldn’t be! God forbid that!

Brielle continued to climb into the driver’s seat and started to close the door when Rita came running upon her. Seeing Rita approaching, Brielle threw the door back open, swung her knees outside the door while still sitting in the seat, grabbed the side of the roof of the car with both hands, and made a fierce front kick that sent Rita through the air, then on her back as well. Seeing his wife hurdled through the air, Bobby, who was the Sheriff, jumped from his seat. He ran toward Brielle as she slammed the door shut.

Brielle then cranked the engine, threw it into drive, and took off. As she peeled away, Sheriff Bobby chased the speeding vehicle but couldn’t catch up to it. He continued to run, pulling his gun and taking aim at the escaping truck…

A New Perspective on Betrayal

Targets of Bullying are most susceptible to betrayal by those who masquerade as friends. The reason for this is that they long for friendship so much so that they attract abusers and users who will only exploit this longing to achieve their own ends. However, at different times in our lives, we’ve all experienced betrayal. Someone we thought was a friend did the unthinkable. And, when it happens, it’s like being kicked in the stomach.

It hurts much worse when you’re screwed over by a friend because you trusted this person. You may have even loved them. This is something you expect from an enemy, but never a friend. Therefore, when an enemy strikes against us, it’s much easier to deal with. However, when it’s someone we trusted and thought highly of, the pain is much worse. In fact, it can be devastating.

Therefore, once you’ve been betrayed, it can be hard to trust anyone else who comes into our lives, even those who may be sincere. When we meet new people thereafter, we proceed with caution and regard others with suspicion. This isn’t good either.

Why? Because, when we allow a past betrayal to cause us not to trust, we only push away those who may be sincere. We, in essence, give the creep who betrayed us power over our future relationships.

Sadly, I went through a phase during my twenties when I too was suspicious of everyone. I thought they all had ulterior motives and kept them at arm’s length. I let the fear of being hurt cause me to push others away and as a result, my relationships suffered.

Don’t Give The Person Who Betrayed You Power over Future Relationships

However, I’ve since realized that, with each person we meet and each new friend we make comes a degree of risk. Everything comes with a certain amount of risk and here’s no getting around it. And you either take the risk or you end up miserable and lonely.

Everything we do comes with risk, whether it’s going for a walk or driving to the supermarket. But you wouldn’t stop driving because of the chance of having an automobile accident. So, why would you refuse to meet and make friends because of the chance of being betrayed?

Again, life’s full of risks and you can’t allow fear to stop you from living. You must live life and you must live it to the fullest!

With Every New Person You Meet Comes a Degree of Risk

Therefore, I refuse to allow some lowlife from my past to cause distrust in humanity. Hell, no! I believe in giving the new people I meet a chance and not making them pay a debt they don’t owe. If they blow that chance, then that’s on them, and they would only reveal their true colors.

In closing, you must know that anytime you’re betrayed, the best you can do is to drop the person and move on to someone who’s deserving of your time. Understand that your time and you company are valuable. And you shouldn’t waste it with some chump who doesn’t deserve the privilege of being in your life. So, ditch and switch, baby!

But, whatever you do, don’t let betrayal cause you to distrust humanity and shut new people out! That’s a recipe for misery!

With knowledge comes empowerment!

Townies, Cronies, and Hayseeds II C4.2

Brielle picked up on Misty’s tone and gave her a contemptful glare as Misty turned and walked back to the group among which she’d sat before. Brielle watched as Misty sat down in her chair and noticed the threatening looks Misty was shooting her.

She also noticed Misty lean toward Rita, who also sported the ever-so-infamous short, angular, Karen-type hairstyle. She noted the side-swept bangs, real short hair in the back but long in the front. Also, the shorter hair in the back had a spiky look and the hair was high at the crown, with lots of layers.

In fact, Brielle noticed that most of the females in their clique had the same haircuts but styled it a little different. Brielle ran her fingers through her long, blonde-highlighted hair and she was glad to be different from those women.

It was funny how every person in that group was so careful to stay in lockstep. Same hairstyles, same style clothing and makeup, same attitudes, same everything, which equaled boring. They were carbon copies. No one dared to step out and be original.

Misty spoke in Rita’s ear, then pointed toward Brielle and shot her another dirty look.

“Wow! Nothing changes! ‘Still the same ignorant flake you were in high school, huh, Misty?” Brielle thought to herself.

The Evil Clique

She then turned her back to Misty, Rita, and the rest of the old clique and continued talking with the less popular crowd. And she managed to hear what Misty said next, “Wow! Did you see that! She just turned her back to us! Boy, she really thinks she’s better than us, doesn’t she!”

Brielle only ignored the remark and kept socializing.

When Brielle and Raina walked over to the boat ramp and looked across the waters of the Mississippi, Raina spoke.

“Boy, they haven’t changed much, have they?” She asked.

“Nope. But that’s their issue, not ours. They’re the ones who have to live with themselves. It just shows that they’re the insecure ones, Raina.” Brielle replied.

“Wow! I like your attitude, girl! You’ve morphed into a real tigress!” Raina gushed.

“You have to, Raina. Otherwise, people will walk all over you your whole life. We need to do some catching up, just not here. Maybe when the reunion is over, and we get back home.”

“I’m game.”

“Cool! Then, it’s a plan.” Brielle chirped as she and Raina bumped fists.

Later that afternoon, Brielle, Raina, and the less-popular classmates sat around a huge fire and roasted wieners and marshmallows. Misty, who sat with the old clique about 20 feet away with a Budweiser in her hand, called out.

Brielle’s Indifference is Obvious

“Hey, Raina, why don’t you come over and sit with us for a while?” She asked.

“Nah, I’m fine right where I am, Misty. Thanks for the invite though.” Raina replied.

Brielle gave a quick glance toward Misty and noticed her leaning toward Rita again. She also heard what Misty had to say, though her voice was faint due to distance.

“I guess she thinks she’s too good to come sit with us,” she heard Misty say.

Hearing this, Brielle gave an eyeroll.

Raina got up.

“I’m going to go see what they want,” she said.

“Raina, no!” Brielle said in a short tone as she grabbed Raina by the wrist and pulled her back down in her chair, “Why do you give a shit what those morons think?”

“Look, Brielle, I just don’t to be rude.” Raina said in a low voice.

Brielle scoffed, then gave a derisive chuckle.

Raina Hasn’t Quite Made it in the Self-Esteem Department Yet

“Rude? Honey, if you don’t want to do something, there’s no law that says you’re obligated to do it. They don’t deserve the time of day from you. And if you don’t want to sit with them, they should respect that and leave you alone.”

Finally, the clique rose from their chairs and started toward the less-popular group, dragging their chairs with them.

“Aw, hell!” Brielle mumbled under her breath while seeing them approaching. She and Raina looked at each other, then back at the approaching cliquesters.

“’Mind if we join you?” Misty asked as she and Rita sat their chairs right in front of Brielle and Raina.

“Sure,” said one of the less-pops.

Brielle scoffed and shook her head. She then quickly took hold of the second button down from the collar of her shirt and  pressed it. No one seemed to notice her doing this…

The Degraded, The Demonized, and The Damned

 

People hate it if you’re too confident, too independent, and too free. God, forbid you get too self-assured and have too much self-belief.

Society tends to punish you for those qualities. ‘You see? In this life, the world expects everyone to conform and to stay in their assigned places. Many people have invisible shackles and chains and are expected to keep them on.

If you dare to break those chain, God help you. The world will punish you. They will label you different, weird, a difficult person, and/or a rabble rouser.

However, do you really want to follow the crowd or follow your heart? Would you rather fit in or stand out?

Know that you can never achieve greatness by fitting in. Make a choice.

Realize that today’s great are yesterday’s demonized. And today’s demonized are tomorrow’s great.

Be yourself. Dare to be different. Have your own set of values and convictions. Own everything that is you, no matter how unique!

With knowledge comes empowerment!