Psst! I’ve Got a Secret! ‘Wanna Know What It Is?

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Here it is:

Charles Manson Had Many, Many Followers. Jesus Only Had Twelve. If You Are Bullied, This is for You.

If you are a victim of bullying, you probably have very few friends, if any. It’s not your fault. It really isn’t. Truth be known, you’ve more than likely been bullied by your peers for a long time now and your lack of true friends has compelled you to question your own value.

You wonder what your are doing wrong and may even wonder if you’re a good person. Your family and those who truly care about you may assure you that you are indeed a great person, yet you may be thinking, “If I’m so great, why is it that people at school or at work treat me so badly?”

Believe me, I understand, having been through the same situation and had those very thoughts once upon a time.

However, a lack of friends does not mean you’re a bad person nor does it mean you’re doing anything wrong. You are NOT weak, stupid, ugly, crazy, trash or whatever your bullies may call you. No!

In fact, you just may be doing something right! And because you’re doing the right things, you stand out for it.

Think about it this way: Charles Manson, leader of the infamous Manson Family whom were responsible for several gruesome murders back in the late sixties, had many followers. He was responsible for the murders of high-profile celebrities Sharon Tate and Abigail Folger. It’s believed that he was responsible for the murders of over a hundred people.

But Jesus Christ, on the other hand, had only twelve. He never murdered anyone. In fact, He was sinless.

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Also, several big-name celebrities, such as Taylor Swift, Tamar Braxton, Lady Gaga, Prince, Tom Cruise, and Patrick Swayze also got bullied either in a past job, in school or sometime in their pasts and they were very talented and exceptional people. Some of them still get bullied today via hate mail or hate messages online.

Case in point: People who are great, uber talented, exceptional always stand out from the rest. And those who stand out will be targeted by bullies. Do you understand now? Great! I knew that you would!

Rest assured that despite the vile treatment that you may be getting from others, you are awesome and you still matter! Keep standing strong and never let bullies define who you are!

21 thoughts on “Psst! I’ve Got a Secret! ‘Wanna Know What It Is?

  1. I love the energy you put into your blog. It’s actually outstanding, and surely helps many. I’m not a victim of bullying, but I can still see the heart you have. This post was great. Keep bringing positivity and love to people.😁

    • Thank you so much, Ethendra! I consider this to be my passion and life’s work. And rest assured that I will until the day I close my eyes forever. <3 :)

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  3. You are so right Cherie about having a few or no friends.
    I am friendly with my neighbors and I can count on them if I truly needed their help. However, I have one very close friend, that being my best friend. Our relationship has grown over a 25 yrs + to it is more a brotherly friendship. To me he is a big brother, I was the oldest of five and my brother was still young when I left home.

    • I’m so glad you have a friend and neighbors who are there for you in any kind of weather, Dwain! You deserve it after all your dad put you through. Thank you so much for your uplifting comment! <3

  4. Oh wow Cherie, this is truly deep and I am deeply touched by your candidness on delivering the message about followers and the reputation of those they are following. Girl, this is truly uplifting. I hope more people will read this, especially those who need to hear it for themselves, or to share with someone they know who needs to hear this message. πŸ€—πŸ™πŸΌπŸ₯°

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